Resistance is information.
When a client says no, shuts down, avoids the topic, cancels, or says, "I will do it later," staff should not immediately argue.
The Better Move
The better move is to get curious.
Resistance may mean:
- The client is afraid.
- The client is confused.
- The client has been hurt by systems before.
- The client does not understand the recommendation.
- The client cannot access what is being recommended.
- The client feels ashamed.
Your Rule
Do not fight resistance. Follow it to the barrier.
Sample Responses
If the client says:
“I do not need that.”
You can say:
“Okay. Help me understand what makes it feel unnecessary right now.”
If the client says:
“I already tried therapy. It did not work.”
You can say:
“I hear you. What made it feel unhelpful last time?”
If the client says:
“I do not trust these people.”
You can say:
“That makes sense if trust has been broken before. What would help you feel safer taking the next step?”
If the client says:
“I will do it later.”
You can say:
“I hear you. What usually happens when it gets pushed to later?”
This approach keeps the conversation open.
You Are Not Arguing
You are not arguing. You are not giving up. You are finding the real barrier.
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05_Handling_Resistance_HeyGen.mp4 — Production placeholder.
Create a 90 second video showing common resistance phrases as text bubbles and calm staff responses. No faces. Use neutral background and captions.
On-screen text
- I do not need that.
- I tried therapy before.
- I do not trust people.
- I will do it later.
Production note only. Do not generate new clinical scenarios.